Woman's essential nature is to be an incubator of love.
That spirit takes root and love grows into a sapling, and then a towering oak. It is a prerequisite for happiness and personal development. As a result, millions of women are inverted and are missing the boat.
Finally, a child is the expression of this unseen reality. Rather than creating loving environments, they are aggressive and self-seeking.
The male must present a woman with a spirit that she can embrace. She gives her husband and children unconditional love. A husband gives direction, purpose and security to his wife and family. They need someone to create a loving environment for them. 3) Men should not waste too much time on inverted women, i.e. (A wag said marrying a feminist is like a Jew marrying an Anti-Semite.)A strong man might help a feminist rediscover her femininity.
Men generally use money or power to appeal to women. Psychiatrist Marie Robinson calls this their "essential altruism." Women were designed to find identity and self-fulfillment in their husband and family. Ultimately, women do not get satisfaction in worldly achievement. Everything leading up to marriage is preparation for these complementary roles. Hence the power struggle that makes "equal" relationships a constant trial. 1) "A man makes the house, the woman makes the home." A man must get his personal and professional act together. (See the movie The Bostonians, for an example.) But you're dealing with milk that has curdled.
However, a man is much more than a provider or doer. Every man has a divine mission and purpose on earth. They find fulfillment from giving and receiving love. Better to find a woman who is naturally feminine and naturally receptive.
This mission imbues him with a confident masculinity, which appeals to a woman's higher instincts. This requires many contacts; the Internet is perfect for this.
Don't waste time trying to make a shoe fit just because you're starved for love.
Instead, narrow the pool down to women who want you. I do all the shopping and cooking and try to make her happy.
I found a woman with traditional values in Mexico and finally found happiness. She doesn't compete, criticize, control or complain. She has a Master's Degree in Information Technology from a leading U. Our marriage proves that roles can be flexible when identities are secure. Ron said (September 20, 2016): Congratulations on 15 happy years, Henry.
My wife taught me how a woman creates a loving environment. If I look at another woman, she doesn't jump on me. To your wisdom in this article, I'll add two things that each man or woman can evaluate for him or herself.
The first is a quote from Marilyn Monroe: “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” MM may not have revealed a universal truth, but the odds are generally with a man who can make a woman smile or laugh.