There comes a time and age when a single man settles on the fact that the woman he ends up with will have a ready-made family for him.
It’s the price we pay for showing up late to the ball; by the time single guy has defeated the work-force, made his bones, and decides on the whole nuclear family bit at 30+, his queen-to-be will have already danced the dance with another man.
The bachelor accepts this, tries to look past it for love, and hopefully does a pretty damn good job of snapping into the role once they are married.
Baggage has a lot more faces than merely having children with another man, and they find out harshly that the childless woman may be a big baby herself, looking for a “daddy” to buy her things.
So men accept the fact that dating women of a certain age will result in children being almost a certainty, so they either date 19 yr old girls, or own up to the reality that their dating prospects will come with a child. This sounds mad young to me, like something my nightmare of a 22 yr. Yet this comment right here is the leading excuse from women as to why they won’t give single dad a chance.
Women can have a whole different mentality about this however… I want to find this woman when she has a kid and her bitchy ways drives the dad away and she is out trying to look for a dude as a single mom.
Just so I can flip the script on her and this bird caliber statement. Now, there are some legitimate issues with dating a dude with kids that I can understand.
First of all is the evil ex-wife who is the child’s mother, and then there are the dumbass dudes who try and force new-girlfriend to play mommy without any real introduction.
There are many ways to say no to single-dad but the list of opinions above this paragraph just read as vile, disgusting and immature – yet I hear it all the time.Sadly it is the way that many single women feel, just ask a dad that’s trying to date. How come men are cool about rolling with the punches, dealing with the jackass baby’s father, and playing uncle to a woman’s seed yet the “fairer sex” are unapologetic harpies about it?Let me mess around and have a child whose mother dies, leaving me with sole custody and I know for damn sure that a good percentage of women out there would not even ask about her let alone attempt to date me.Single dads I want to hear from you about this bull…are you restricted to dating single moms now, or have you had any luck with childless 30+ woman?I have one homeboy who dates plenty, but the women he talks to almost always have a child of their own. Are women really this self-centered even when children are involved, or is it one of those femme rivalry things where they want to be the one and only mother in your life?