Courtship dating rules for christians

Question: "What is the difference between dating and courting?" Answer: Dating and courtship are two methods of beginning relationships with the opposite sex.

First and foremost, dating is a time when a Christian finds out if his or her potential marriage partner is also a believer in Christ.

The Bible warns us that believers and unbelievers should not marry each other, because those living in the light (of Christ) and those living in the darkness cannot live in harmony (2 Corinthians -15).

As stated before, during this time there should be little or no physical contact, as this is something that should wait until marriage (1 Corinthians -20).

Courtship takes the position that the two people have no physical contact at all (no touching, no hand-holding, no kissing) until marriage.

Many in a courtship relationship will not spend any time together unless family members, preferably parents, are present at all times.

In addition, courting couples state up front that their intentions are to see if the other person is a suitable potential marriage partner.Courtship advocates claim that courtship allows for the two people to truly get to know each other in a more platonic setting without the pressures of physical intimacy or emotions clouding their view. For daters, spending time alone with a member of the opposite sex whom we find attractive can present temptations that can be very hard to resist.The Christian dating couple must have boundaries in place and be committed to not crossing them.If they find this hard to do, they must take steps to ensure that Christ will always be honored during their time together and that sin is never given a chance to take hold of their relationship.Just as with the courting couple, the parents of the dating couple should be involved in the relationship, getting to know their child’s companion and being a source of wise and discerning advice and guidance for both of them.Of course, the courtship style presents its own set of difficulties.

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