Younger women must be prepared for a possible future heartbreak that may leave them confused and bitter for the rest of their lives if their not careful.The following advice may or may not have been shared with you by some well-meaning family member or friend.If you are having problems as a younger woman understanding an older man, then take heed.
A well-educated, wealthy, handsome, older man is not dating a younger woman for just mere shallow reasons like “she’s pretty and athletic” neither is an ignorant, poor, ugly, older man.
His reasons may be even more complicated since he doesn’t have everything going for him like his handsome friend.
If you are a younger woman with discerning family members and friends they may have already told you to “be careful” and they may have questioned your choice and asked you what does he want with you? Well you will have to get to know him in order to find out the answer to that question.
Since many younger women are busily preparing for their careers, involved in various activities, and spend time socializing with friends, they aren’t spending a lot of time getting to know their older men.
Unfortunately, it is very easy for the mature man to say and do things that may ultimately hurt his younger mate’s feelings in the end.
Some younger men can and will do the same, but for the purposes of this article we will not be talking about them. Let’s explore some of the reason he may have wanted to date someone 10, 15 or even 20 years younger.
Do you know for a fact that your older man isn’t still married? Some men have admitted younger women don’t have as much “baggage” as older women.
Are you aware of the children he may have had in previous relationships? Can he really take care of you like he has promised? By baggage, they mean past experiences with men that have usually been negative.
He is hoping that a younger woman will bring a physical energy to his life that wasn’t there before, more on that later.
If he isn’t a parent already, he may be looking to procreate.
If he has a controlling personality, he doesn’t want a woman who is “mouthy” one who will speak her mind, an independent thinker.