There are countless articles out there designed to teach people about the online dating rules.
But, here's the thing: as online dating changes, so do the rules.
And that means that some rules which were seen as gospel truth are no longer relevant in today's dating environment.
Of course, when you think about it, what seems more silly: joining a community of fellow looking-for-love singles, who are introduced to you based on potential compatibility?
Or heading to the nearest bar, feverishly scanning for someone who ‘looks' single, then hoping like mad that a) they’ll notice you and b) that you have something – anything – in common? And the statistics support this: recent research has shown that internet dating is now the second most-common way to find a partner, while as many as 1-in-3 marriages start online.
It’s a tale as old as time: if love is meant to be, it will find a way.
Your soulmate is out there – all you have to do is be patient and wait for the fates to make their big reveal.
While that’s a nice enough plot for a Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan film, reality doesn’t work like that.
If you sit around in anticipation of love, all you’ll get is a long wait.Indeed, if you’re serious about finding a partner, it’s ok – and even necessary – to work at that goal.It doesn’t make the love you find any less worthy or any less real.Dating etiquette can be very useful indeed and we should all abide by it, even the dating rules that rely on old-fashioned stereotypes (such as expecting blokes to make the first move). In these times of increasing equality, this attitude just doesn’t seem fair – to anyone involved!It can be nerve-wracking to say hello to someone new, but what’s even scarier is the thought that this should be left in the hands of just one gender.Not only is that a lot of pressure for the men to deal with, the women run the risk of missing a connection with someone wonderful, all because they were too shy to ask him out.