During the week, we communicated through text, phone calls and made plans for a second date - I come over to his place for take out dinner, watch documentaries and go out dancing. be honest with him tell him you want it to last adn you feel a bit regretful....honest and see where it goes from there...Judging from his "game" he's going to drop you like a rock once you have sex.
What is second and third base in dating
He's spent a significant amount of time with you but still, if things were going well and he was hoping for a possible sexual outcome then he'd hang in just to see if things would happen.
I believe he's just trying to "swoon" you...chemistry to a degree might be genuine but I can see this is all just too accommodating and convenient so far for him and It seems to me he is trying to close to the deal.
This guy just seems average with some skill set in getting women over his place at least.
We talked for about a week and so we decided to meet in-person for brunch. We had an instant chemistry and it was mutual that we didn't want our meeting to end so we ended up watching a movie.
The theatre was close to his condo and, to avoid paying for parking, he told me to park at his downstairs visitor's parking area. After the movie, he invited me into his condo where we sat on the couch where he has put his arm around me and watched a movie that was on tv.
He asked if he could kiss me, I told him that it's too soon. But by the end of our meeting - 7 hours later - we were holding hands as he delivered me to my car and I drove away. Any time you press rewind on the dating/sex progression, it might suggest a couple things.
During the week, we communicated through text, phone calls and made plans for a second date - I come over to his place for take out dinner, watch documentaries and go out dancing. My problem: While it felt really good, I am regretting my actions because: 1) it was too soon? (1) You regret getting sexual with him and realize you don't find him worthy of being sexual with.
Our second meeting (6 hours) turned into eating take out dinner at his home, watching two documentaries and slow dancing in his living room. Advice, comments, suggestions, anything is appreciated. 2) I want this relationship to last 3) due to 1) and 2), I now have to figure out a way to suggest that we need to slow down without stomping out our existent chemistry 4) maybe.. (2) You would rather be sexual with someone else so you need to cut off the sexy time with him while still being able to see him.
We ended up kissing and, in the heat of our passion, one thing led to another... My problem: While it felt really good, I am regretting my actions because: 1) it was too soon? __________________ Ad hominem - attacks on a person rather than on the validity of evidence or an argument Reductio Ad Absurdum - argument that an extreme of a position must be true as well False Dilemma - giving two extremes as the only alternatives to a position Confirmation Bias - considering only evidence favorable to one's own position I met a fine gentleman from an online dating site.